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Sometimes, it just happens.
And one rainy morning, stuck in bumper to bumper traffic, I came up to the accident that caused our delay. My timing was "impeccable" for the rescue team carried from, the little Corolla, a body bag. It was the first time I ever saw something so final. Later that evening, I read in the newspaper that a 26 year old girl never made it to work that morning. Her tire blew and her car spun off the road into a guard rail. She did not start her day thinking this was going to be her last.
Sometimes, it just happens.
What if? What if that rider pulled her horse out of the stall with a nasty cut that morning? Would it have saved her life? What if she threw her leg over the back of a western pleasure horse, would she be home that evening kissing her daughter good night?Folks that I know who walked that course did not feel that that particular fence was tricky, set in a way to confuse the horse/rider or offered a question so technical that it would prove to be fateful. Yet, in this case, the horse hooked a leg and tumbled over and onto its rider. No one knows for sure...
Sometimes, it just happens.
My heart is so heavy for the loss of this beautiful young rider and mother. The stories surfacing from her friends, associates and riders are of a person with a good, loving heart. No, this shouldn't happen to anyone but it does. Just like that young girl who never made it to work that day, this shouldn't happen.
But it does...
Equestrian activities are dangerous and there is an element of risk every time we ride. Horses are unpredictable. Years ago there was a rider at an event that left the door open to her horse's stall and she threw herself in front of her escaping precious pony and died from the blow to her head.
Sometimes, it just happens.
So much is being done to make Eventing safer. There has been constructive talk and plans to do more and there have been the haters. Much of the hateful commentary are from folks who are not keeping close to all that is being done - research on cardio-vascular events, frangible pins, course design. And, the improvements are there and will continue to improve because we want to do what we can to prevent injury and death.
Yet, sometimes, it just happens.
In no way am I minimizing this life lost so young. It is heartbreaking. And in no way am I saying that all is good and doing nothing is the right thing. What I am saying is that sometimes, it just happens. Sometimes, you bow your head and you pray for the living and the ones that have to go on.
And sometimes you have to truly be thankful for your own life and know, that today is the day to live life well. This is your moment for it is all you have... Live it well...
I will donate to her child's college fund and I will match my donation and send it to the USEA's safety and research arm. And if you feel so inclined, the links are below:
Millie's College Fund
USEA Rules and Safety
